In my whole life, I can say that I met a vast of different characters of people and I am proud to say that I have deal it very well. There is nothing wrong with every person, maybe the bottom line is that every person have a unique approach in every situation which some people can't understand because they have their own solution too. The worst thing is, if they are close-minded and has the hard time to fight their "ego" then a "Big Bang" theory will happen. It means that there will be a clashed of indifference that leads to a fight but of course it can be prevented through "OPEN COMMUNICATION". There is no problem that cannot be solve when you know how to listen & talk.
It was just last night that I witnessed again a very sentimental reconciliation of group of FRIENDS. I adore them for being so honest and very cooperative on my open forum for them. Of course I was not the hero there because I was also involved in their misunderstanding. Maybe I was just an instrument for them to loosen up and face their fear. When a person is currently feels hurt & hate, it is not a right time to fix things because your brain and heart are not in good condition. Yes, it's hard to forgive person especially if the damage is freshly made but come to think of it, why God gave us Brain?? It is because we need to use it for thinking and storing good & bad memories so that we can retrieve it when another trials comes to our way. It is easy to forgive if we know how to listen & talk. Yes, we can't forget especially bad memories but try also to value the good memories because it worth double the prize.
Life is really exciting especially if you have someone to share with like your friends, family & love-ones.
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Solution are not always acquire by Force. :)
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